Things are changing at a rapid pace but people in relationship get stuck on the initial contract/deal they made.

What I mean by contract or deal is when you got married you agreed to be together till death do us part.

This is fine but what I often see is people getting stuck in a rut and when the other person starts changing for the better the other partner gets uncomfortable about it, makes your life hell and pulls you back to where you were because it's "easier" just to do what the other partner wants to keep the peace.

Does this sound familiar?

Maybe you have even started looking outside the relationship for Intimacy, sex, closeness or maybe you just think about doing that. Either way I don't blame. 

It is completely unrealistic to expect to receive all our needs for happiness, connection, friendship and love from one person but that's what our society wants us to try to do.

No wonder there are so many failed relationships and people looking outside the relationship.

What I want you to know is that you can have the things you need and want. You are not a bad person for that and it's time to let the guilt, shame and confusion go.

It's time to get yourself out of the rut and move forward within/without the relationship.

I am an expert at helping couples communicate and renegotiate their relationship, even transitioning the relationship into friendship.

Whatever you want and desire can be yours. It's in your reach. All you have to do is take the brave and curious step by clicking the link and jump on a free call with me to see if we are a match to work together.